Tue 29 Mar 2005
As my husband has already posted, we were featured in an article in the Ann Arbor News regarding the impact of the passage of Proposal 2, which is now being used to attempt to deny same-sex couples domestic partnership benefits granted by their employers. In our case, since I currently have no health insurance through my employer, I’m on Alan’s policy through the University of Michigan where he’s a graduate student. Having insurance through Alan is a big relief, and has made my current job uncertainties rather less stressful.
So now we’re the official poster-boys for same-sex marriage and domestic partnership stuff, at least for the next fifteen minutes. As you can imagine, this inspires people who feel the need to communicate. So yesterday we got a call from someone (straight married guy he pointed out) expressing his admiration and support for us. I need to call him back and thank him for his kindness.
Today I got the following missive in the post, typed on pink paper with a copy of our picture from the paper, with a note in pen that says “Arn’t [sic] You Darling?”. For the purposes of enlightening the public, I shall produce the note in its entirety:
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Faggott!
Is pink your color WIMPS? women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead undulged in sex with each other, men instead of having normal sexual relationships with, burned with lust for each other, men did shameful things with other men and as a result suffered within themselves the penalty they so richly deserved.
When the refused to acknowledge God, He has abandoned them to their evil minds, fully aware of God’s death penalty for those who do these things, yet they go right ahead and do them anyway.
When man lays with another man like he would with a woman it is abomination and sinful, it is NOT in God’s image, on judgement day you will have to answer for this sin.
Faggotts are a disgrace, I must say WIMP you [sic] WIMP boy friend is so GORGEOUS! you are anti-God secular scum, anti-American scum, you have a problem with your benefits get separated benefits morons.
About the only ones on your side are the liberal-left they love ya, and so does the corrupt ACLU, your kind are part of an immoral class and party of the enemy within, you will not be happy until the word of God and Jesus Christ are stamped out and that ALL of America will be faggot land.
I have seen faggots turn their adopted kids into faggots, you spread AIDS along with the doppers [sic?] and niggers of Africa its not too late to repent your life style, its your choice to be faggots, no one told you to, marriage is for a man and a women [sic] that is God’s law and I would say your [sic] mocking God right now.
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Some thoughts
- This guy (its always a guy) must be an idiot. He uses a typewriter and his own handwriting. If you’re going to send threatening letters at least use a freaking laserprinter. They are slightly harder to trace. I’ve seen CSI. I know what forensics people can do.
- The reference to Romans 1:26-27 is typical. See the page on these passages at textweek.com (a wonderful resource), which provides some excellent exegesis on Paul’s intentions here.
- I’m curious which one he thinks is gorgeous. The letter was addressed to me (no return address, the coward), so he must mean Alan. The picture isn’t the best (our wedding pics are better, although I’m thinner now), but he does look pretty good. I’m glad I married him, thank you very much.
- The idea of turning America into faggot-land is appealing — we would certainly get into a lot fewer wars and someone would convince Condoleeza Rice to get her teeth fixed — but as a Christian and ordained elder in the Presbyterian Church (USA) he’s rather off the mark in terms of my intentions towards denying the Christian faith. Maybe its cliche, but I try (often with great difficulty) to live my life with a nod towards “What Would Jesus Do?”. I have a strong suspicion that my Savior, who spent his time hanging out with prostitutes, Gentiles, and Roman collaborators (sinners, all) would not be spending his time penning anonymous and threatening letters to people who are asking for health insurance.
Also, despite its flaws and the constant idiocy of the current administration, I love my country, thank you very much, and I thank God that I live in such an amazing (if sometimes amazingly flawed) country.
- Both of us having lain with women as well as men, I’ll tell you that one never lies with a man as one does with a woman. Its completely different, bub! “Abomination” is a rather big word, and given that I’m not too concerned with touching the skin of a dead pig either, I don’t think admonitions about ritual un-cleanness are particularly apropos. I have read my Bible, dorkus, including the parts you conveniently skip over.
- I’m not mocking God — I honor and respect God in all of her mystery and glory and awesome presence. However I am mocking you, for you dishonor the faith that you claim to hold dear in sending this evil trash into my house.
There, I feel better now. Peace.
March 30th, 2005 at 9:44 am
Condi’s teeth are the least of her problems. Does the woman own even one flattering outfit? She isn’t a homely woman, but her couture is like something from the St. Vincent de Paul store.
March 30th, 2005 at 2:54 pm
So…. he typed AND hand wrote this wonderful piece of literary genius? I’m in awe of his talents.
March 30th, 2005 at 3:38 pm
He called you a wimp and sent you an anonymous letter? What a total wuss… By the way, that’s a nice photo, you are both gorgeous.
March 30th, 2005 at 3:49 pm
Aw shucks…
March 30th, 2005 at 9:43 pm
I read this hateful idiots note to you and just shook my head. It’s obvious to me who will be doing “all the answering to God” when we ALL get to heaven.
March 30th, 2005 at 11:48 pm
Congrats on your hate mail! I love reading how idiotic, moronic, and ignorant people can be; even more so when they’re rebuted with such style and grace.
March 31st, 2005 at 10:33 am
Why is it that hate-mongers invariably don’t know how to spell? Nor does this “sheeple” have a very good relationship with grammar. This is what happens when they throw a typewriter into the shallow end of the gene pool.
“His” rant sure sounds like HOMOSEXUAL PANIC to me! :~)
April 2nd, 2005 at 12:42 pm
I’m not going to make comment on the hater. I’m just going to say WELL DONE to you. I understand completely why you and Alan are together. Both of you have beautiful, intelligent, wickedly funny minds. YAY!
April 2nd, 2005 at 1:49 pm
Aw shucks.
April 8th, 2005 at 4:29 pm
Wow.
I don’t think I’ve seen anything recently that could be more deserving of my Official Holy Crap award. Please print this in the hopes that this moronic bird dropping of a man will come pick up his arsenic filled trophy. Please inform him that he will find his award waiting for him at the bottom of the ocean. He should find it there, no problem. It might take him awhile to locate it, since he’ll be busy fighting off the legions of gay squid that have a particular fancy for hate filled angry ass heads. But if he just holds his breath and swims deep enough….
blub…blub…blub….
That’s a good boy.
April 8th, 2005 at 8:21 pm
That reminds me. I’ve been meaning to renew my ACLU membership. Thanks, hateful anonymous bigot!
This guy clearly watches way too much Fox News. I didn’t know those people could read. You learn something new every day.
April 14th, 2005 at 2:16 am
why do all americans feel the need to tell everybody about a private part of their lives i.e.religion?
April 15th, 2005 at 12:40 am
Well, Ivan….in the USA, religion *isn’t* seen as a private thing. One’s sex life is private, and one’s income ins private, you wouldn’t talk about that in public - at least not in any detail, not if you have any class at all - but religion? You must remember, the USA was founded by people who came to these shores to get away from religious persecution, (and proceeded to pursecute anybody who didn’t worship the way they did). You can see that religion was not, and could not have been “private” in these circumstances. And it seems that the public-rather-than-private has continued over the hundreds of years since.
As for this coward with his anonymous letter, I’m sure he’s feeling very self-righteous right now. It’s the only righteousness he’ll get out of it, too, so I hope it’s satisfying.
April 15th, 2005 at 2:27 pm
to Angela B.Thank you for a gracious and enlightening reply.I understand the persecution angle,what I do not understand is the need today to be so,I think the word I am looking for is,loud.In Denmark,religion is a very private thing.To proclaim ones religious wiews in a public forum is to commit a social gaffe.People will look upon you with pity,almost as if you,publicly broke wind.This is not in any way a comment on your own religious wiews. It is nice to communicate with a human being on the net.It makes a powerful difference in ones wiew of other people.Thank you.
April 26th, 2005 at 11:34 am
hey Brian,
I stumbled upon your page here. I hope you are getting more positive responses than the negative. And it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy to see that you an Alan have made a life and continue making a life together.
July 19th, 2006 at 7:12 am
it is unbelieveable to see there are still complete and utter biggits in the world today….im seventeen, from dublin, ireland, and although i myself am an atheist i am studying religion in school at the moment for my final examinations. In ireland when you study religion in school you do not just focus on one set of religious beliefs but as many as is possible. From this i have gained a great understanding, and respect, for other peoples beliefs and ways of life. And if the person who left that hateful comment had any true understanding of the bible he would realise that its main emphasise, its main focus, is to ‘love your neighbour as yourself’. How can someone who claims to be a man of god completely ignore the core element of the bible he worships from??? And to call some one a nigger is just pure and utter ignorance… He also said that gay people spread aids…if he was worldly wise or had any sexual education at all he would realise that this is a completely unfounded statement… A diease like AIDS has preference over who it infects because of their sexual orientation… If everyone in life just let people live their own way of life without judgement and treated people with the respect that everybody deserves the world would be a way more peaceful, happy, and prosperous place… and is that not supposedly what god wants???? apologys for my rant and blabering on here but biggits really infuriate me….
July 19th, 2006 at 7:13 am
it is unbelieveable to see there are still complete and utter biggits in the world today….im seventeen, from dublin, ireland, and although i myself am an atheist i am studying religion in school at the moment for my final examinations. In ireland when you study religion in school you do not just focus on one set of religious beliefs but as many as is possible. From this i have gained a great understanding, and respect, for other peoples beliefs and ways of life. And if the person who left that hateful comment had any true understanding of the bible he would realise that its main emphasise, its main focus, is to ‘love your neighbour as yourself’. How can someone who claims to be a man of god completely ignore the core element of the bible he worships from??? And to call some one a nigger is just pure and utter ignorance… He also said that gay people spread aids…if he was worldly wise or had any sexual education at all he would realise that this is a completely unfounded statement… A diease like AIDS has no preference over who it infects because of their sexual orientation… If everyone in life just let people live their own way of life without judgement and treated people with the respect that everybody deserves the world would be a way more peaceful, happy, and prosperous place… and is that not supposedly what god wants???? apologys for my rant and blabering on here but biggits really infuriate me….
July 19th, 2006 at 7:16 am
sorry for re-posting my comment… i needed to make a correction…. i meant to say that “a disease like AIDS has - NO - preference over who it infects because of their sexual orientation” soz again….good life and good luck…..